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Heather's avatar

I loved this article on the title alone- and the rest didn’t disappoint! Britney Spears is an excellent example of a young woman walking that needle’s edge being everything the patriarchy wants (virginal and hot and talented) and still got completely screwed over. There’s no winning, so fuck it. Don’t erase yourself. Seize your sexuality and independence with a cheeky wink a la Sabrina Carpenter. And if you can add in some Pink or Rhianna level of zero fucks go piss into the wind attitude, go for it.

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Suki Wessling's avatar

Good piece. Sometimes I think that the second wave feminist generation, those of us born between the 60s and the '90s, tried to fight against this dichotomy. But the younger generation, not sure of millennials but definitely Generation Z, seem to be deciding just to step outside of it. Conservatives wonder why so many young people are gender expansive, but it's not at all confusing when you look at the gender roles that they are presented with. They have choices that they get to make simply because so many of them are making them all at once. They are making up their own new spectrum and it's scaring the bejeezus out of people who have based their own self-worth keeping the status quo.

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